Moving in with GF

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  • locustsloth0

    Or you could just throw it in the fire and see if it burns up.

    Let her move in, but do other things apart from her to maintain your autonomy. If she tries to modify your behavior in ways that you don't appreciate, kindly tell her no thanks and be honest about the reasons. If you guys are a good match, you'll learn to accept one another's quirks and build bonds. If you aren't a match, you'll grow to loathe each other that much faster and it'll fizzle out. But better to spend a little time on something that's not meant to be. That way you can both move on and each find something better

    • The only problem is she's the type of girl that'll piss alll over my stuff if I left her. I know it sounds bad, but it wouldn't be that bad if I was ready.smee
    • that bad if I was ready to move in.smee
    • If you already know she's that vindictive, you may want to envision other scenarios where she'd be pissed and ask yourself if you want to deal with that.locustsloth
    • if you'd want to deal with that anyway.locustsloth
    • alarm bells buddy!prophetone
    • Aw, fuck!smee
    • lolprophetone

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