Moving in with GF
Moving in with GF
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sorry to get into this one after 50 posts but this happened to me too. I suggested that if I had made decisions, by myself, about "our" relationship she would be none too happy about it. I would never give her such a decision to make, and I wasn't happy she put me in such a position.
If she's giving you an ultimatum call her bluff. It lets her know you're the man, or it lets you see if she's girl or a woman. I let her know I loved her and I wasn't ready to move in together but if it caused HER to split up OUR relationship, than that's HER decision to leave . . . We've been married for 6 years. If she had left I would have known she wanted nothing to do with me. It's hard, but either way you win: knowing if she truly cares or not.