Ever had an affair?
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- cannonball1978
Don't really know anyone who has ever had anything ongoing. Curious to see how that shit plays out in real life versus the movies.
- moldero0
cause QBN's SEO's suck and no one will ever read this
- cannonball19780
lol didn't think of that. ah well. never mind then /thread
- bored2death0
My mom had an affair. Ended up leaving my dad and married the guy and stayed with him until he died. I guess it worked out great for her but not for my dad... or me.
The thing about affairs is there is always at least one person that is going to get hurt. Maybe two... maybe more.
- Maaku0
Don Draper kind of shit?
Yes, it happened once for 3 months.
- CALLES0
define affair
- autoflavour0
i havent, but a very close friend of mine had his partner have one.. it was very messy and complicated and lots of unexpected moves by people close to them at the time made everything even more messy and complicated. it was someone set a grenade off in the middle of a tight knit group of 14 friends..
the relationship survived, sadly the crew never really recovered.
- mind you, they got together from her having an affair with him, so what can you expectautoflavour
- "very close friend"bainbridge
- chossy0
Aye loads it's quality, nothing better than pumping a different bird awww yeah boyeeeee.
- stoplying0
A friend of mine, his wife cheated on him. It was devastating to see, they were married for 20 years, have a son about to start college and my friend was absolutely crushed.
He handled it by just exercising his ass off. He ran the pain away, biked the pain away. Now he's fit and has a new lady in his life but I can't imagine that initial moment when you "find out".
- autoflavour0
after what happened with my friend, i thought a lot about how i would handle it..
i think to be honest, i would probably be ok with the sex part.. it would be lying about it that would get to me..
if my wife did, but then told me about it straight away, i think i would probably be ok.. i guess it depends on the reasons.
if it was a spontaneous unexpected fling its one thing, if it was an ongoing secret then i think that is a completely different problem.
from what i can tell, its the beytrayal and the lying that causes the most problems, not so much the sex.
- that said, im sure in the heat of the moment, its a different storyautoflavour
- well, it's an "affair", as opposed to once-off cheating/sexsine
- pinkfloyd0
I kinda had an affair in my twenties. I was in a long term relationship that wasn't going anywhere. I was fucked up where I never really loved her, and used her. Towards the end of the relationship, I found someone else, and messed around. I think my ex went through my email as I found her crying in front of my computer. I found my ex on facebook last night, and still had that guilt, but glad she's found someone.
- autoflavour0
does internet porn count?
- pinkfloyd0
"from what i can tell, its the beytrayal and the lying that causes the most problems, not so much the sex."
I had a friend who said the same thing. She was in a polygamous relationship with her husband. She was ok with the sleeping around part as long as it was open, but she told me that breaking the trust was what hurt their relationship. They eventually got a divorce. She even tried to have a revenge fuck with me I think.
- cruddlebub0
i dont see how a relationship can work on the basis you can fuck anyone you please!
i couldn't do it to my lady, and i'd like to think the same about her...
- CALLES0
in our mind we have all cheated on our significant others fantasizing about Moldero
- i do the same with myself, myselfmoldero
- Its usually a gangbang between you two, Scarabin and with Marychain in the corner furiously masturbating to granny pornautoflavour
- pornautoflavour
- all the while, Mono is running a web stream of it and making mad bankautoflavour
- hahamoldero
- I need that url!moldero
- great, now I'm horny...
OSFA - wordmonospaced
- uan0
I did. what I recall: the most devastating thing for my gf ever and this fucked me up for some years to come. NOT worth it.
- freedom0
Evening dinner party affair.
- sarahfailin0
I once got involved with a young married woman. She was 26 and had been married for 2 years. She came after me at a conference and we stayed involved for about 9 months long distance.
Seems like she wanted to get a divorce, but couldn't do it until she committed some act to fully break the relationship. Don't know if what I did was helpful to her or not, but I guess it was more her decision than mine.
- Gnash0
When women get caught, "but I love him." When men get caught, "she means nothing to me"
- MarleyMarl0
Anyone who answered, or answers yes is an utter pice of shit human being. Go die.
- Hormones.bainbridge
- even if they used a condom?CALLES
- or
PIITB?OSFA - We need more personal info threads like what your social...yurimon
- Dayaaam I'm terrible yo! Its not my fault women want to get tucked into me.chossy
- lol yuri, was thinking the samemoldero
- 1 thread = whats the last 4 digits of you SS, another whats the first 2 etcmoldero
- anyone who answered? what the fuck do you mean? i answered, but i didnt ahve the affair.autoflavour
- cheated on?cannonball1978
- lol auto
fuck you auto, you utter "pice" of shit human being!!moldero - oh "Go die."moldero
- you answered. go die. ;)rabbit