Ever had an affair?
Ever had an affair?
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- autoflavour0
after what happened with my friend, i thought a lot about how i would handle it..
i think to be honest, i would probably be ok with the sex part.. it would be lying about it that would get to me..
if my wife did, but then told me about it straight away, i think i would probably be ok.. i guess it depends on the reasons.
if it was a spontaneous unexpected fling its one thing, if it was an ongoing secret then i think that is a completely different problem.
from what i can tell, its the beytrayal and the lying that causes the most problems, not so much the sex.
- that said, im sure in the heat of the moment, its a different storyautoflavour
- well, it's an "affair", as opposed to once-off cheating/sexsine