confessions
confessions
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- greyandred7
I'm a 40 year old recently single dad of a 2 year old, and have stumbled into in a strange relationship with his babysitter - a 20 year old. I mean, she's absolutely beautiful, and she's the one fighting for this to happen between us, but I'm painfully aware we have nothing in common but a physical attraction.
She's of a totally different generation, really sweet and means well, but I feel so guilty. What the fuck am I doing QBN?
- pics?drgs
- Did you mean 'what the fuck am I doing ON QBN, when I'm single & I have an attractive 20 year old lusting after me?'?Wolfboy
- Wear protection.zarkonite
- beware the loonies.Gnash
- Wait until she's 21 to decide anything, until then hit the gym and carry on...robotron3k
- Go for it.babydick
- just tell her that. I just feel physical attracted. if it's okay for her and she doesn't have expectations then go for it. she might teach you somethingoey
- https://www.youtube.…Gnash
- When I was 32 I met a 20 year old. She was in love, pushing, dreaming of marriage and babies.. I was confused like you. Eventually stayed friends.shapesalad
- She was a bikini model. So it was hard to stay friends... but glad it's like this now.shapesalad
- Girls that age want to feel grown up, to stand out from their peers, have their beauty and worth confirmed.shapesalad
- They're not really fully aware of what it all means, and they will regret rushing into it...shapesalad
- At 20 I was still figuring out my left from my right foot.notype
- Walk away.notype
- Gnash awful presentation... i did laugh thoughnotype
- Seriously? Bang her for a while...STORM305
- Fuck walking away. Fuck her. FUCK ITTTTTset
- I’ve been totally honest about my concerns, and she just doesn’t seem to have any at all. But why would she, she’s so younggreyandred
- Am keeping it as casual as possible until I sort my head out, but can’t see it working long termgreyandred
- @Shapesalad: Wise words. But yeah, I’m finding it confusing too – she’s distractingly hot :-Dgreyandred
- Appreciate the LOLS as well. Thanks QBNgreyandred
- I was 35 and dated a 21 year old ... we are engaged to marry.mugwart
- be open and honest and for fuck sake enjoy the fantasy!!mugwart
- The maturity of a 20 y-o versus a 40 years is very different. beware man.Bennn
- Good to hear Mugwart, congratsgreyandred
- I mean she's visual perfection in every sense and I feel incredibly lucky, especially coming out of a major breakupgreyandred
- Yeah Bennn, that's it man.greyandred
- Well, enjoy, give it time. Try a holiday abroad, holidays are always a good test.shapesalad
- Too dangerous.SimonFFM
- ^ thisGnash
- its okay. do it and make sure expectations are setcannonball1978
- The red flag for me was that she's "fighting for this to happen"... what? Sounds like you're fulfilling your own needs and could give 2 shits about her.notype
- Sounds like it'll be a mess. We'll be here to make some jokes about your situation in a month. Just don't have her open up QBN on your phone hehhehnotype
- Tread carefully for your kid's sake. A good friend once said "Ask yourself...is she the future mother of your child?"Gucci
- In this case you already have one, so if it's just a bit of fun, enjoy. If it becomes something else...well...that's where shit gets messy.Gucci
- @notype yeah, doesn't sound too good when you put it like that. I'm apprehensive to say the least.greyandred
- @Gucci Good perspective, thanks mangreyandred
- I'm dating 20 y/o's that are nearly as mature as me. Don't care if that says more about me or them, bc the dynamic suits me. Not for everyone of course.SteveJobs
- But I'd argue women change most between early to mid 20's, so serious *might* be tough depending on how hot she is vs. how much she's looking for marriage.SteveJobs
- go for it, you only live once. no Regerts!_niko
- SteveJobs how old are you 22-23?
its pretty rare to find a person without any bigger issues who has a developed (mature ) personality at the age of 20 (or 23).sted - Don't get her pregnant. AND please don't let your child see you two together. Other than that, have fun.sea_sea
- talk to her, see how it goes, protect your kid. Go slow (if possible!) as it might impact your kids. Seriously if your honest and she is and you both enjoy eachmugwart
- other its just a part of the relationship. Its only a good thing for us. Forces me to remain young and it might force her to think mature. Meet in the middlemugwart
- if she likes your kids and still wants you then its a great sign. As long as its not a 'green card' job. First think i asked myself was how would my kid likemugwart
- her. 3 years on and they are doing homework and he has a genuine positive female figure in his life.
These things can work out.mugwart - don't always over think it. Again if you both brutally honest its only a good thing.mugwart
- I assume that's related https://www.qbn.com/…zaq
- @drgs LOLuan
- so you took the attractive babysitter and now you are in trouble. either way it sounds like you need a new babysitter soon. its your turn, i dont judge!api
- I can already smell the drama awaiting you.utopian
- If you get together, and in a years time you're looking for a new baby sitter, I can only imagine the look she gives you when you hire a hot 20 y/o.shapesalad
- ^ just get her to recruit the next one. As long as she goes on qualifications, simples!mugwart
- Sorry bro.
"Half your age + 7"VectorMasked - you're a dad.
my guess is her dad is probably fairly close to YOUR age... picture having a conversation with him...exador1 - If my daughter suddenly started dating a guy THAT much older, I'd have some fucking problems with it...exador1
- did you hire your babysitter from tinder?pinkfloyd
- Lol Vectormaskedpango
- MEDIOCRE!!!DRIFTMONKEY
- Ah, sorry I did not read ‚single dad‘. Wondered why everyone said do it. You’re free so yes, why even ask! Enjoy!SimonFFM
- Lol @pink... If you're single, why not? But, take care of kids; if things between you two start going bad...OBBTKN
- Tread lightly. We’ve all seen bitter 40 year olds who were treated without the respect they think they deserved at 20! Do the right thing.Ianbolton
- i've been there, spent some good times, but it's a dead end. No matter how mature, the age gap is there.ApeRobot
- Congrats! Is she Polish?Hayzilla
- :DDsted
- She was born in 1998...
Probably barely remembers 911...
O_Opango - She was born in 1998...
Probably barely remembers Google...
O_Outopian - Also.... Pic or BS!pango
- pics or it didn't happenautoflavour