Moving in with GF
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- prophetone0
suggestion: just tell her you're not ready and leave it at that. call her bluff. you will remain where you want to be (happy) and you will see her true colors. if she's dope and 'the one' this will be a blip on your facebook timeline. awesome! but... if she malfunctions and goes postal... well that's when you ask yourself some bigger questions, like do you really want to take this any further. you only live twice brozer!
- 20020
she is holding moving in as a hostage.
that says a lot about her.
- omg0
- akrok0
you're asking other guys. like they know what the fuck is up.
- prophetone0
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- 20020
also, if you had to ask some random fucks on the internet about if you should let your girl friend move in, you and her are in a different place in life.
both of you are cunts and fucks.
so now fuck off.
- ali0
Google doesn't have the answer because there is no one answer - move in when it feels right and natural for you or not. If she's making threats or ultimatums because things aren't going her way she's probably not ready for a live-in relationship with you.
Although, there is no reason why you can't live with someone and have freedom and space as well - just a matter of finding someone that is mature enough not to be clingy and controlling.
- inteliboy0
sounds like she just wants to move in with you.
i think this thread is probably the worst thing you could have done and is going to make things a lot worse in your head...
- inteliboy0
if a girl posted a thread like this, we'd be all "typical crazy bitch overthinking everything"
- kirshar120
My last move-in girlfriend turned into a keeper. The first one or two ended horribly, just horribly...........
My keeper gf started much the same way as yours, just not with an ultimatum. The one that ended horribly, ended with an ultimatum........
Also remember, at 22 and 25, you've both got some growing and changing ahead of you.
- Amicus0
If you aren't ready for her to move in after 14 months you probably aren't in love.
We only have one short life. Experience has led me to believe that after 6 months you should move in for a trial 6 months. If it is still working at that point don't change anything! You have your whole life to decide if you want to sign a piece of paper and make it official, but in reality the commitment is within you, not in that signature on a piece of paper.
I suggest waiting 2 months or so and see how things are going if you guys are still strong then talk about a 6 month living together trial to see if you can stand each other in that confined situation.
Good luck bro.
- 20020
Answers are all here
- ali0
You quickly see what a person is really made of when you live together.
- CanHasQBN0
Shoot her in the face.
Problem solved!
- zarkonite0
uhm, actually, do you have picture of her?
- drgs0
you will die alone
- moldero0
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