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- pascii0
u got my full sympathy man.
- version30
thanks mayo. Thing is she still wants 2 go away together over new year, (which was booked already) as *friends*
Stalock
(Dec 20 05, 08:46)
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If you take her with you, you a remetally inept my friend. take a homeboy of try to invite some chick you literally just met the day before the plane leaves but undeer no circumstances should she go on that trip. if you can change out the tickets this late in the game that sucks, go alone or just don't go.tell me please that you understand the point being made here.
his is the story she's telling her friends
"I know he alrady got me some sweet gifts for christmas that he won't return because he still likes me, and i haven't gotten anything for him because I'll tell him giving him gifts would just make it harder to seperate"
then about the trip
"It was so fun, he was so nice and sweet and polite to me the whole time and I didn't even have to kiss him once, i flirted with this hot guy on the beach a couple times while he went to the bar and got our drinks. The best part was the hotel wouldn't let us upgrade to 2 beds so he slept on the floor or couch everynight for a week"
don't be that guy man, please.
from all the y chromosomes on the internet, don't take her on that trip
- grayhood0
bummer, i hope you have a reciept for her gift.
- grayhood0
do NOT go on that trip with her.
- evan_dileo0
Good Riddance.
There are soo many amazing and beautiful women out there.
Enjoy your solitude for a minute, then go find one.
- evan_dileo0
and please don't go on the trip.
walk away.
- mattyd0
version3, i was going to say he should go in the trip for all the things you just outlined, but instead of her doing it, he is. id go and be the biggest ass. then be like, 'what? arent we just friends?'
but that is my thinking and i am shallow.
- designaked0
DON'T GO ON THE TRIP....but if you do then listen VERY carefully to mattyd's advice.
- skelly0
thanks mayo. Thing is she still wants 2 go away together over new year, (which was booked already) as *friends*
Stalock
(Dec 20 05, 08:46)don't do it!
- version30
matty i agree. when your mind isn't clouded like his right now it's easy to come up with those ideas, but someone in his situation sounds like he wouldn't be able to stick to the plan and might get played some more once she starts prancing in her swim suit
- pollypocket0
RUN away, more like.
dont go on the trip. been there done that. and what a waste of time.
think of it as a new start AND there are plenty of single lovely ladies to meet on new years eve too!!!
big hug
x
- Fizik0
day after christmas breakup for me. Strangely, stings just as much. :-( 5 years.
- gramme0
Here's a heartbreaker for you:
My buddy was going to propose on Christmas Eve. I went to help him pick out the ring.
She went to a party that week, slept with a dude she wasn't even interested in, swore to God it was all a lie when rumors reached my friend,
told him the truth 2 weeks ago.
At least he found out before the wedding...
- spongebob0
2005 Christmas season is the season for breakups huh?
- gramme0
+ corporate shake-ups
- tkmeister0
hmm, i think my gf and i are happy together.
she's coming over in a bit. you guys are scaring me!
- winter0
hmm, i think my gf and i are happy together.
she's coming over in a bit. you guys are scaring me!
tkmeister
(Dec 26 05, 17:42)
--------------------------------...don't mind the rumors...
- 5timuli0
hmm, i think my gf and i are happy together.
she's coming over in a bit. you guys are scaring me!
tkmeister
(Dec 26 05, 17:42)I was with my gf nine years. On the night we split up it was 15 minutes from when she said "I think we should split up" to when she walked out the door. 9 years > 15 minutes.
Never get too comfortable.
- 5timuli0
Sorry, didn't mean to freak you out :S
- tkmeister0
man!
it's alright. yeah, anything can happen in this life. but it's all good. we'll move on, right?