taking a break from your gf
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- spendogg0
find a girl who looks just like her - fuck her and dump her.
- sevenonethree0
.....about things..
who knows what will happen, but things will turn our perfect...i gaaroontee
Nac_part2
(Jun 5 06, 08:06)i concur
- version30
have sex w/ other girls, she is having sex w/ other guys
- grunttt0
i say you find a new place to live and just before you move out bang another woman in the spare bedroom while "she" is still there.
"Whats the problem baby? We're on a break."
=)
- Sven_sk0
find a girl who looks just like her - fuck her and dump her.
spendogg
(Jun 5 06, 10:17)i have never seen another girl who is as beautiful honestly. she is so gorgeous. 5"7" 125lbs. 36c-26-34
she is absolutely beautiful and will be a hard act to follow.
- barbtastic0
me too...
"aint got time for bullshit!!"
- Sven_sk0
have sex w/ other girls, she is having sex w/ other guys
version4
(Jun 5 06, 10:18)she really isn't though she's not the type that just hoes around. like i said she is very picky would rather just play with her toys.
- techma0
I'm no expert here, but in my experience, if you let a girl decide what to do about your relationship, she usually ends up saying no anyway. YOU take control of the situation by not taking any shit. I mean, don't be an ass about it, be cool. But don't sit around and wait for her to let you know. That's the reason that women love us in the first place, is that we are confident and believe in ourselves enough to know that we are worth a hell of a lot more than a rag to be tossed around. If she comes to her senses and decides to get back together with you, cool. But if not, you have made the best decision.
- Sven_sk0
"Whats the problem baby? We're on a break."
=)
grunttt
(Jun 5 06, 10:21)LOL. classic.
- Sven_sk0
But in my experience and in logical sense comes down to these reasons:
1. wants to fuck other people.
could be. but i don't think so. date other people but she's not the type that sleeps around.
2. getting wetfeet from the egagement.
i think she thinks that getting married means that her life is going to become more and more boring and routine.
3. that family problem you were talking about but i highly doubt that the case your dating her not the family vice versa.
her mom adores me and i get along with her dad pretty well
but she thinks my family hates her, which they don't and as a result of her thinking this she doesn't like my parents one bit4. bored and confused about the relationship
i think this is the biggest one. i think its become routine and stable and a bit predictable and i think she misses the excitement and thrill of when you first start dating someone
5. and finally most common problem, financial stituation is it stable? maybe thats why she is not stable.
its sad but its true your stable income brings you a stabe relationship.
we both make really good money and make closes to the same amount the finances are fine now. but a while ago when we first moved here, it was a problem bc she couldn't find a job she liked or one that paid well so it did cause some stress but the finances are much better now and not an issue.
- Sven_sk0
But don't sit around and wait for her to let you know. That's the reason that women love us in the first place, is that we are confident and believe in ourselves enough to know that we are worth a hell of a lot more than a rag to be tossed around. If she comes to her senses and decides to get back together with you, cool. But if not, you have made the best decision.
techma
(Jun 5 06, 10:23)very true. good point.
- barbtastic0
Sven_sk... seems you are not ready to let go.
- Sven_sk0
otherwise you will sit there years from now and wonder if things could had been different if you took action and solve things rather than moving on.
sevenonethree
(Jun 5 06, 08:02)i'm willing to do whatever it takes to make it work. i'll give her space and do my own thing and try my best to make it work but i can onnly wait for her for so long.
- Sven_sk0
"sucks. we just a got a puppy together to. i love that damn dog."
sick.
so it wasn't just oil and toys you pervs use in bed??
Crouwel
(Jun 5 06, 08:05)LOL. :)
- barbtastic0
you will only find the answers to your questions if you REALLY give her space and get the hell out of there.
a house, dog, etc is no reason to stick around, it will only complicate things.
- joyride0
techma knows!
Stop thinking about what her issues are. or what's wrong with her, how can I fix it. YOU CAN'T! Your in this relationship too, but you can do what's going to help you. So when she goes out on her nites out... why are you not out with your friends, or just going out (not with her). I know it's hard to do all this stuff, when you just want her back. but yourself will be so much happier later. You stepped up, took charge and got yourself going in a direction you want to go in. everyone's been where your at, it sucks. but wouldn't you rather have some control of your life?
- Jaline0
3. that family problem you were talking about but i highly doubt that the case your dating her not the family vice versa.
depending on how the person was brought up and their personality, family could be a huge issue in many relationships. Not necessarily for sven though.
- mstrobert0
have you put finances, house, and your family issues before her?
if you want to stay together, fix things together ... sell the house, quit your jobs, all that shit is temporal
... but in the end, you do lose your identity a bit when settling into coupledom, but that's what its about, making a better whole than you were individually.
and yeah, i live in the burbs - house, dog, bills, wedding plans ...
but as stated above, it'll eventually work out perfectly (as long as you get the dog)
- sevenonethree0
otherwise you will sit there years from now and wonder if things could had been different if you took action and solve things rather than moving on.
sevenonethree
(Jun 5 06, 08:02)i'm willing to do whatever it takes to make it work. i'll give her space and do my own thing and try my best to make it work but i can onnly wait for her for so long.
Sven_sk
(Jun 5 06, 08:17)yea, i'm with you about that. however while your doing whatever it takes, make sure your getting results and effort from her back. If not, you'll know its already over and its time to move on so then you know you gave it your all.
I mean yea its gonna suck cuz you'll be wasting time and losing that time to give yourself to breathe, but i'm not you and i dont know how important this girl is so just follow your heart and talk to her make sense of the stituation of why ya were together in the first place. and if space is really worth it to throw away 5 years etc.
thats my 2cents
- Sven_sk0
just remember there is still you to take care of too, and like jox said, this is your time to breathe and think about things..
who knows what will happen, but things will turn our perfect...i gaaroontee
Nac_part2
(Jun 5 06, 08:06)i concur
sevenonethree
(Jun 5 06, 08:09)those are the best words of wisom i have heard yet. thank you my friends.