where tha l.a. women at?
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- gavin3100
alright, so this is what i have going against me... i don't drink, i don't dance, and i stutter. mix all those together and the club scene isn't for me. i like it, but it's just a little uncomfortable. hell this saturday i was at a club and was standing on the edge of the dance floor trying to not look weird when this girl right next to me decided to show her tits to her friends... 3 times. i like clubs when stuff like that happens. but other than that it's not the place for me to meet women.
- You've got to take a 'leap of faith'Jnr_Madison
- i gotta know where to take it though. or you just mean randomly? that scares megavin310
- Hey, I do all of these things as well.Jaline
- e-pill0
why dont you take a weekend job or a night job in a coffee shop or bookstore or even retail, you will meet a lot of new people and strengthen your talking ability and confidence levels so when you find the girl you like you can easily go up and start a conversation...
dont get down, you will find your hottie, then you will dump her and get a new one and so on and on...
- gabe0
gavin, i'm in pasadena... moving to marina del ray soon though. work in west hollywood/beverly hills area
- airey0
i think you should find some groups that do things you're interested in or might be. indoor rock climbing? book club? anything man. stuff that will get you out and give you time to get to know people a bit and vice-versa.
- gavin3100
that's probably it. i gotta expand my wingman network.
when you try online dating, and you do a search for your age range/area and you get to the end of the list.... it's kinda depressing.
- gavin3100
you're right jaline. but it can't be a female. girls don't come up to me when i'm with another girl
- i forgot i need to start going up to girlsgavin310
- well that is why they need to be the wingman and reel in the other girls...e-pill
- Yeah. Girls work sometimes. It all depends on the type of relationship they have with other people.Jaline
- The simple answer is that you "just talk to them", but obviously shy people won't do this. So someone else has to do the work.Jaline
- leg work, and then you have to do the rest.Jaline
- Jaline0
http://www.qbn.com/topics/570430…
gavin310:
"dude i'm an expert on women, dating and meeting girls. if you need any advice, i'm your guy."I'm creating a vortex. Hang on.
- airey0
are you kidding? if chicks see you with a chick then half the work is done. you never have more value than when you already have perceived value.
- e-pill0
you should go take an art class at night in one of the colleges in the area, you will meet a ton of girls there...
- gavin3100
i actually do really well when i talk to someone. the problem is actually starting a conversation. but see, i stutter... girls don't care, but it's just hard to start a conversation because you have to start it off with letting them know you stutter. i'm just being a pussy. i know.
- the bed wetting might be an issue also? i wear waders for the first couple of romantic nights in.airey
- hah. i used to wet the bed until i was like 11gavin310
- you have all the trappings of a serial killer my friend. awesome.airey
- i was winnie the pooh for halloween. does that help?gavin310
- it'll help something. not sure what.airey
- airey0
maybe try places where chicks are a little more relaxed. abortion clinics, AA or drugs anonymous. welfare office. you know, a place where hope is already gone. then swoop in and settle their low expectations for life.
- NotByHand0
Gavin, are you implying that dwelling in the NT forum daily is not the path to getting laid?
- gavin3100
i worked right by Planned Parenthood (an abortion clinic) a few years ago. there were always girls outside crying.
- ********0
does the stuttering bother you or are you comfortable with it? they just ran a tv-report the other day, featuring a relatively unknown program which seemed to be amazingly successful in helping stutterers. the scientific bakcground sounded solid too. ever looked into it? http://www.delferro.nl/index.php…
might help maybe, easing up and so, but then the one hardcore stutterer I know is quite successful with the ladies.
- ukit0
Fascinating thread
- Jaline0
I think stuttering is cute. Not sure why. I'm probably damaged goods or something.
And, like gung_hoek said, there are people out there who can help you with that.