Dating after a certain age
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- deadsperm-4
When you over 30 and still dating aren't you just trying to get laid. Assuming that you started dating in your teens... you're still not trying to find that special someone at this juncture, are you?
- Not true. I have two close friends in their 50s and they want a white picket fence Norman Rockwell family setting.CyBrainX
- we want what we want, no what you think we need.imbecile
- That is my question, what are you looking for that you haven't found so far?deadsperm
- The 'happily ever after' ending is what pretty much everyone is looking for. You don't need to "date" to get laid.formed
- happiness, some to tolerate, someone to tolerate me, an unwillingness to settle, an equal, motivation, inspiration, something i haven't found yet.imbecile
- username checks outKrassy
- well fuck off thenimbecile
- oh, you meant yourself for being crass, as you were.imbecile
- hans_glib1
- oh fuck, wrong thread.hans_glib
- actually, given the jaguar driver profile, maybe not...hans_glib
- Only for married men, says Jaguar :-(mekk
- "Jaguar — For men who'd like hand jobs from beautiful women they hardly know."
https://www.youtube.…jaylarson - ShaguarBusterBoy
- Is that George Lazenby (Bond actor #2)?CyBrainX
- colin_s8
fall in love or say it's just not gonna work out
be good to people along the way
ignore society and what the status quo tends to say
- Gnash2
Your moms can help. assuming they're not already busy with Docpoz,
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/s…
Bonobo Mothers find suitable mates for their offspring and chase away intruders once the mating begins
- dibec2
If it floats, flys, or fucks, it is cheaper to rent.
- shapesalad-8
Dating is all about reproduction.
Mating strategies.
It takes about 4-5 years for a human baby to grow into a somewhat automatous child (thinking in terms of ancient hunter gather cultures).
In the modern world you need to support a child into adulthood at least until they are aged 18.
So what does a woman look for from her male partner. Depends on the society, the roles of male and females, but in western society, typically she wants a man to provide for her and the child during the early years, and giving the economic situation of today (low wages in relation to housing costs) she ideally wants her man to stick around for a long time, as it's financially, and thusly in terms of survival, a better outcome.
So she wants a man with a job, stable career, and decent health to last for the next 18 or so years.
What does a male look for: a caring loyal woman, of sound intelligence to rear a child, wide hips and big boobs to facilitate in the healthy deliver and rearing of a child.
There's nothing complex here.
If you're an older guy looking to date and form a couple - just try to be financially stable, get in shape and be healthy.
- I recommend watch all of Robert Sapolsky's lectures on behaviour evolution: https://www.youtube.…shapesalad
- And Dan Bacons videos on some of the layman / modern western man sociological was of thinking https://www.youtube.…shapesalad
- Combine all that with a healthy diet, regular exercise, book reading and a stable financial situation and you'll have no problem securing a mate.shapesalad
- And once you've got that far - you realise there are far more interesting problems to use your brain cells on.shapesalad
- Evolutionary psychology is a shitty pseudoscience. Sorry dude.Nanocephalic
- Not sure why the downvotes. You speak the truth. It's human nature.NBQ00
- It's like one of those autistic and fundamentally useless responses that the pub know it all (but doesn't) trots out whilst everyone sighs into their pints.Nairn
- zaq6
- John, we've been dating for a while now. When will you introduce me to your family.
- I am not sure, Maria, how my wife will react to that.
- robotron3k1
I could do a PowerPoint prezi on this, maybe bring in some show and tell...
- sted0
- NBQ00-1
MGTOW (Men Go Their Own Way). The ideal channel for this thread: https://www.youtube.com/user/San…
lol
- necromation3
Split from a long term relationship of 12 years - We just ended up becoming more flatmates and will remain friends...|
But now i got myself a Russian model (no,not a mail order one!) and genuine super kind soul. Oh i'm 46
- imbecile0
that version sucks.the album version is better.
James' lyrics are on point
- jagara0
It always sucked. It sucks a bit more now.