oh....i am CROSS!
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- cruddlebub0
i know she knows, she has said that she's been doing it for a week, i don't believe that. she had done so well not to smoke for so long.
never being a smoker myself i can't understand the addiction.
must be tough, i just wanted her to tell me.i just feel like she's let herself down
- Fax_Benson0
It's the clandestine nature of of having a sneaky one that appeals and allows you to justify it to yourself. You should encourage her to smoke openly in front of the in-laws, school gates, other parents etc - introduce the shame that isn't there when you're on your own.
- she knows its bad. she prolly does it on the way to spinning, when shes in town on her own...cruddlebub
- georgesIII0
Maybe she's pregnant and doesn't know how to bring it to you,
or maybe she's recently discovered that she was a lesbian after your last trip to chikafeelhay,
or maybe she loves the taste of Malboro™ and conned you into making this thread, you just got inceptioned!!
- cruddlebub0
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck!
- fadein110
do you think she may be stressed about your relationship?
you sound quite controlling.
- cruddlebub0
really? she does whatever she wants. i never EVER tell her what to do, and as i said before she had given up (for herself) For nearly 3 years, of course i am upset but more for her, i haven't taken her ciggies off of her, she'll continue to smoke. its her body.
i'm not to sure how you have worked out how i am towards her in a few paragraphs!
- maybe because you make it sound like such a big deal when really it's not ?spl33nidoru
- i mean (and not to judge anything) she obviously feels the need to hide it from youspl33nidoru
- only because she thought i'd get angry and shout, which i didn't. she could of just said!cruddlebub
- see ?? you're terrorizing the poor girl! ;)spl33nidoru
- hahaha maybe i am!cruddlebub
- i was joking. sorryfadein11
- ukit20
Or maybe she's addicted to nicotine
- cruddlebub0
maybe i should join her in a death rod or two
- rabbit0
i am 3 weeks into going cold turkey after 15 years of smoking.
thinking about some chick on the other side of the world sneaking in a ciggie is for some reason really playing on my mind and making me want one. if she can be so weak, surely i can!?
nicotine is one hell of a drug - up to 7 times more addictive than heroin.
i just finished a fairly spicy pizza with ice cold coca cola - what i would do for a smoke right now.
- ukit20
Having quit several years ago I can say there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I remember all those cravings for a smoke after eating, when having coffee etc...all completely gone now.
- cruddlebub0
@rabbit
i know its the most addictive thing in the world, and i feel for her, she has/had smoked since the age of 12 (bad girl) until 32 so 20 years...
- elahon0
I quit about 12 years ago, but whenever I drink I get a serious jonesing for a smoke. I've never given in, though.
- sureshot0
I quit smoking cold turkey two years ago after smoking for 20 years. Had no problem with it. still dont. Now all thats left is beer.
- omg0
been smokeless for 5 months now. Now all that money saved can be spent on prostitutes.
- cruddlebub0
really the thing that upsets me the most other than her going back to doing it is the smell....
i loath it.
- detritus0
Distract her addiction.
Buy her some skag.
Kids'll love it too.
- hahaha much better idea, at least she wont smell of fags....cruddlebub
- raf0
I smoked for years, then stopped cold turkey, then smoked some occasionally, mostly at parties and on holidays. Haven't in some time.
I never understood the nicotine talk, always considered it an excuse.
It's just a strong habit, with situational and social triggers. Whenever I find myself in a setting I used to smoke in (a location or a group of smoking friends), that's when the desire to smoke wakes up. Not by smelling nicotine smoke, it's rather revolting.
- you dont smell nicotine, you smell smoke, the nicotine is absorbed into your bloodstreame-pill
- the body isnt addicted to smoke as that is revolting as it should be.. its smoke.e-pill
- I know, I mean it's not as much cigarettes themselves that trigger smoking, it's the context.raf
- they stink, and make the smoker stink twice as badcruddlebub
- I have cigarettes, don't feel like smoking at all. I'll feel an impulse to smoke when at a party.raf
- if i have a pack i smoke it, if i have 4 packs i smoke it all..oi you have good control.e-pill
- Actually having a pack helps me not to smoke. If I don't have cigarettes, I might crave them.raf
- raf0
"I don't know what is going on with my husband, he was so strong, doing so well and then I saw him secretly checking QBN again.
I don't know why the relapse, don't know what to do. I need a cigarette."
- hahahaha she knows i'm here. i am always showing her the pic of the day thread!cruddlebub
- CygnusZero40
Who gives a shit. We're all going to die soon enough anyway, and when you're dead you dont have regrets, so do whatever you want and enjoy yourself.