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- locustsloth0
This may seem all Dr. Phil and shit, but have you appealed to her emotion, since she's an emotional person? Have you told her how her talking you kids down makes you feel? Some of this behavior may be coming from how she was treated at your age. Maybe if she reconnects with how she felt then, she'll have more compassion for you now. Or maybe i'm just grasping at straws
- BTW, you are screwing up your brain by being here. We all arelocustsloth
- I can't. I've tried most of this before and I'm tired of it. I will consider your advice, but I'm also not the type of person whoJaline
- can easily connect with someone else genuinely. I'm emotionally distant in most of my relationships.Jaline
- Thanks for your suggestions though.Jaline
- i can tell you, from what i've heard my wife say, having a child, especially a daughter, be emotionally distant from their mother can be crushing for the momlocustsloth
- mother can be crushing for the mom. This may differ from culture to culture, but it's something to think about. She may feel really alonelocustsloth
- The sad (or good) part is that I will probably forgive everything tomorrow and move on (unless someone else brings it up first).Jaline
- Not that that gives her the right to demean you, but emotional people don't do logical things.locustsloth
- You know what though...part of it has to do with how close-minded she is. If she were more accepting of me, I'd be a bit more open.Jaline
- open with her. I'm kind of like the black sheep in the family. More liberal.Jaline
- Here's to hoping a good night's sleep fixes some of it or at least diminishes it's impactlocustsloth
- So that negates most of the stuff we COULD even talk about. Any opinion that goes against hers = absolute shitJaline
- I'm sure I'll be fine tomorrow. That's how some families work, I guess. It works against me being closer with her though.Jaline
- One of my mom's friends stayed over last week and even told my mom that she should listen to her kids' opinions more.Jaline
- Jaline0
Good night, everyone.
- locustsloth0
It's hard to be the one to open up, especially when you're feeling attacked. If you can muscle through the initial reaction of close-mindedness and stay in a calm, logical, but open place, the sgitator (your mom) will often see that your actions are what is dictating the conversation, not their rants, and will calm down a bit and some logic will filter though.
i have to do this with my wife from time to time, as she is also an emotional person (whereas i'm logical). At first opening those difficult dialogues feels like you're asking someone to shoot you in the chest, but once the rage on their part subsides, good things can come of it- I am skeptical since our fights re-occur every weekend and I try to discuss things with her, but I hope you're right.Jaline
- locustsloth0
Well, if you try any of my suggestions, fer godsakes, don't start the sentence with: "This guy locustsloth said..."
i prefer Dr. locustsloth
- hahaha, I won't even mention you because I bet that would start another fight.Jaline
- flashbender0
are you a girl locustsloth?
- Are you buying dinner?locustsloth
- He's just smart.Jaline
- But seriously, i'll answer your question with a Permalink
http://www.qbn.com/t…locustsloth - You make the call, benderlocustsloth
- I thought you were a guy. I was planning on mocking you for your sensitive insightsflashbender
- Bearded lady?ismith
- But now it just seems like too much workflashbender
- ah, thank god. Hahaha. You are so sensitive. You are like a girl!flashbender
- it's all kind of anticlimactic now
I'm going to watch a movieflashbender - Just pretend I am automatically posting a nice comment about you every time flash posts a sarcastic or mocking one ;)Jaline
- now I really have to sleep...Jaline
- Please do, go watch your movie. i don't want you to see me crylocustsloth
- THanks Jalinelocustsloth
- Are you a bender, bender?Jnr_Madison
- That's not clever at all. No, like boobies.flashbender
- omgitsacamera0
- needs a bit more work.Jnr_Madison
- yup. any suggestions?omgitsacamera
- The join doesn't seem right to me. The top right needs sharpening. Their eyes need to be more level. Neck colours need to be matched.Jnr_Madison
- need to be closer.Jnr_Madison
- and the noses really throw it off. Life would be a lot easier if you had another pic of the guy on the right at the same angle.Jnr_Madison
- You can solve a lot of the problems with liquidity but it may make the guy on the right unrecognisable.Jnr_Madison
- omgitsacamera0
"J'ai réinventé le passé pour voir la beauté de l'avenir."
I reinvented the pass to see the beauty of the future.
-Louis Aragon
- flashbender0
pass or past?
- Jnr_Madison0
emo, do you use last.fm?
- haven't been on there in a long time. need to remember what my login was.emukid
- okay yeah i am there. how do i add people on this shit?emukid
- what's yer username? Mail me if you prefer.Jnr_Madison
- fakeplasticsafemukid
- emukid0
does last.fm keep track of the porn i watch too?
- because i'd love to be able to network with people who watch the same kind of porn as me.emukid
- I'll mail it as a feature request. I added you. Going to have something to eat now. c u later.Jnr_Madison
- that is a genius ideaflashbender
- neue75_bold0
I get the feeling I have missed much, but then again, that in-itself means I've gained so much more...
good luck to you my friend, enemies and lady chatterley lovers...
- lol********
- god bless you, keep on fighting the good fight...neue75_bold
- lol
- emukid0
does having just 1 friend on last.fm signify that people don't like you?
- yes. I left you a message on there.Jnr_Madison
- I'm really going for something to eat now.Jnr_Madison
- I'm loving that playlist of yours.Jnr_Madison
- thank you sir! there isn't a single second when i am on the computer that i am not listening to music. i should leave the scrobbler on more oftenemukid
- the scrobbler on more oftenemukid
- ********0
http://www.last.fm/user/rsek add me if you like.
- addedemukid
- addedJnr_Madison
- added.added.********
- I'm adding you guys.Jaline
- I added you dig (me=evoxed)ismith
- emukid0
from public choice -- this is quite good:
http://www.carloslascano.com/car…
- matt310
gary
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Boris
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http://www.apple.com/trailers/in…
Rofl kartoffel
- locustsloth0
Can trolls have sex changes? Is that allowed? i'm just sayin'...
- Moonbeams?SkyPoo
- yea. The charade started out good, but has since gone downhill. No lady i know talks like thatlocustsloth