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i know a few people who use it and its more of a laugh than anything, some of the girls are straight up cock hungry, others are after dates etc.
My buddy has been on one tinder date and is in the process of getting nudie pics off her... good man!
if i were single i can see the attraction as its a really easy way of meeting new people.
i may open an account just to completely act like a weirdo, but some of the freaks on there may like that!
Many disappointments, a LOT of girls are much, much smaller and younger in their photos! Or just really boring compared to their text banter. But about half of them have looked mostly like their pics (just without the same good lighting etc). I've hooked up with a few, even ended up a little giddy with a few. And fucking hell some were so out of my league hot I could hardly speak! (needless to say I just had a drink and enjoyed watching them leave)
Nothing lasting has come out of it, but nor has anything else for a while. I think it's amazing. You meet people that would never set up or have time for okcupid etc! Some of them are really chilled, some are party nutters, but a lot of really awesome chicks! None of them are going to agree to come to your house and shag yer brains out, but after a few drinks I've gone home with one or two. And then met up a few more times for more of the same...
I used it for a week, it was all I could stomach. I found something deeply unsettling about how it commodifies people.
^ If you both decide you like the look of each other you can get talking, meet and find out if you like the person. Isn't that how normal dating works anyway... ?
^ I know, I know, I'm sure it can be really great for some people. For me, though, there was something about stamping 'NOPE' on someone's head that I didn't like. Maybe I had a bad date too ... and I feel really awful in situations where I don't click with someone but they do with me ... I don't think I'm cut out for high intensity dating ... and maybe it's too early for me having just got out of a long relationship, it all feels a bit weird. Or maybe I'm just 40 and my ever-decreasing dating options are just depressing me!
I think messaging someone before meeting them is the weird part, but I mentally stamp 'NOPE' on people's foreheads on a daily basis... don't we all?
^ Yeah, that's weird too. For me, I think I feel bad if I have a great rapport with someone via text but then hate them on sight, I'm just not cut-out for that mercenary aspect. I feel bad for the person I reject and I feel bad about myself for being so shallow. That's not to say sometimes it's the other way round and I'm the rejectee. Maybe I need to just get over myself.
is there a hack to see who liked your profile yet?
so I've been using it regularly since I initially made this post. Not much has materialized from it. Went on one date with a girl who was much better looking on her instagram/fb and snorted when she laughed. Texted back and forth with many a average girl that were never interested in actually meeting. Matched with a quite a few hotties who never responded and were probably just checking their egos (hey I do the same!).
Overall it's been fun but a huge time waster. will report my findings if anything changes.
oh and there seems to be a problem with their algorithm where it repeatedly shows girls you've nope'd. I've swiped so much I'm not sure if everyone just looks the same or if they are people I've seen before.
How about you guys post pics of girls you've hooked up with?
I have no problem meeting girls in real life but I don't go to bars much anymore because I moved to a new city a year ago. Don't get out on the weekends often.
On OKC, I meet girls often. Went on 4 dates this weekend. One was cool. Dated my dream girl, then she disappeared with no reason.
On Tinder, met two really hot cool girls a few months back. Both flaked. This past week, clicked on a hundred pics, only 3 girls liked me back. and they were blah. This shit is lame.
Internet bitches be easy
I got 40-50 matches in the first few days and in the last two weeks had maybe 4 or 5. Similar thing happened to a friend. Met a few girls from Tinder and all have been as nice if not nicer than their pictures would suggest..